One minute he says that you’re so beautiful and he’s crazy about you, the next he’s straight up ignoring you and you feel that soul-crushing invisibility that only a bottle of vodka can distract you from. If you’re sick of decoding his mixed signals, there are some tell-tale signs that he’s just not that into you.
1. HE “FORGETS” ABOUT YOUR PLANNED DATE.
Look, I don’t know about you, but when I have a date planned with someone I like, Voldemort himself couldn’t stop me from going. I’ll write it on my calendar and even count down the hours until said date is due to begin. If he’s even slightly as excited as you are for the date then there’s no way in hell he’d forget about it. Chances are he didn’t forget, he just thought getting day drunk with his bros and falling into a comatose state was more interesting than hanging out with you. The truth hurts, I know.
2. HE COMPLIMENTS YOU EXCESSIVELY ABOUT SUPERFICIAL THINGS.
Just because he singles you out to tell you that you look beautiful instead of looking you up and down, it doesn’t mean that he likes you any more than the smorgasbord of other girls in the room. Sure, he probably finds you attractive, but all he’s doing is planting the seeds early because he thinks you’re easy pickings.
3. HE’S NEVER THE FIRST TO TEXT.
As hard as you try not to constantly text him, you eventually give in and find a reason to message him, Even if he’s messaging you back (which is a feat in itself), chances are there are a lot more blue speech bubbles than grey ones. If he really wanted you, he’d be asking you questions in order to extend the conversation for as long as possible. Furthermore, don’t think that Xs and Os mean anything either. If he really cared, he’d actually be there giving you real life kisses and hugs.